Raajkumar

Raaj kumar

I am at jaipur (capital of rajasthan), (4 hours travel from delhi) however i welcome guys from any part of globe because in my relentless quest & search for a life partner i dont consider region, religion, citizenship as long as the guy is also longing to have someone like me as his life partner. but please message me only after reading the profile and only if you are sure that you can come to jaipur to meet me (you will stay with me and no other expenses would be incurred by you) here only 4 a soulmate ultimately – open to meeting for a good time –dinner-drinks- to decide & carry the things forwards. please message with face pictures at raajlimitless@yahoo.com. i will immediately revert with my face pictures also on email. my detailed thoughts & views a soulmate-a friend-your love i am for some one who needs all this. reply assured to all messages having (1) complete details & clear objective & purpose in the first message itself (2) a brief about how u plan to go ahead to achieve your objective & your next move in that direction (3) clear face pictures (if not already there in the profile). i don’t use pictures to decide about a relationship but they are necessary for an identity of the guy i am interacting with good day to all i am a best match for some one who is interested in being with me as my soul mate and be ultimately my successor (kind of a legal adoption by way of will) and willing to own & handle my business & profession (recruitments, events, advertising, social work & others). i stay alone and am unmarried. read fully before sending me even an “hi”. impatient guys (i.e. guys who cant spend 10 minutes in reading a well meaning profile but would spend 10 hours in foolish chats) & illiterate guys (i.e guy who have big educational degrees but lack the will to read something which is intended to choose a soul mate or life time partner) remain away! ________________________________________________________________________ my relationship mantra : “loose yourself in order to find yourself” what relationship means to me not – “me”, but – “we”; not – “mine”, but–“ours”; not – “my career” but – “our livelihood”; not – “my life”, but – “our lives”; ####################################################################### do not send message without reading complete profile please message if & only if, you (i) always longed for a real special some one in your life, (ii) have a firm conviction, clear vision, well thought out objective, an unambiguous strategic action plan & an iron will to move ahead & not get stuck up (iii) are honest with your objective & purpose & are not a one who cheats himself in the name of his duty towards family & concern for society (iv) wish to stick your neck out to reach out to your special some one & willing to come to meet me at my place (i have privacy as i stay alone) (v) accept the truth that (in most of the cases) parents are the real culprits & villains & you are willing to over look the foolish expectations of your parents for the sake of the relationship you are seeking ######################################################################## psychologically sick guys please oblige by staying away (following categories have been classified as psychologically sick guys) ************************************************************************ (i) casual underwears : guys for whom a relationship begins with a meaning less “hi” or a “hello”, “flourishes on yahoo messenger”, and ends up with a web cam (ii) prostitutes : guys who are here for money out of a physical relationship. (iii) mentally ill : guys who have displayed their frustration (naked pictures) here (iv) tailors : guys who are more interested in measurements of body parts (v) dogs : guys who pounce on every bone & flesh they see (vi) pigs : guys who are comfortable sleeping in any shit (vii) fun sick guys: guys who are looking for fun (i am looking for a serious relationship) (viii) psychophants : guys who would not devote 15 patient minutes to read a well written sensible & honest profile but would spend 15 months in senseless & dishonest chats (ix) cheats & frauds : guys who claim to be interested in other guys but say that they have a duty towards their parents so they cant leave the parents to live with the guy (x) guys who have an inventory of 1000 reasons of not being able to move out of their homes to meet someone they claim to be interested in for a life time relationship ######################################################################## pl do not message me without reading my profile word by word & do not send me senseless and wasteful messages just wishing me “hi”, or asking “asl” or asking me to come on yahoo messenger/chat without any details about yourself & without showing your pictures. i don’t use pictures to decide about a relationship but they are necessary for an identity of the guy i am interacting with. i do not chat with faceless structures. and while showing face pictures don’t show me a face which is a display point for sunglasses, caps, and other accessories. these accessories can be seen in every nook and corner of smallest streets in all cities and i am not here to see them but your face which gives you an identity. ######################################################################## my tribute to space scientists! i heard that guys want a space in relationships too! such guys are suggested to board one of the nasa-(national aeronautics space administration) usa, or isro (indian space research organization)-india aircrafts, & take a trip on one of these aircrafts. these aircraft make wonderful trips to space & are capable of leaving such guys in real space they need & there they will never grudge for the lack of space. i am looking for a relationship to fill the space that surrounds me & not looking for creation of space around me! (i really wonder what a relationship is that where one needs space (!) from his soul mate! distance from soul mate! how sick! ######################################################################## once again i am here only for those dear ones - who always longed for a real some one in their lives & are willing to take out time to reach out to him ######################################################################## the search: ************* i am open only for guys with : not – “me”, but – “we”; not – “mine” , but – “ours”; not – “my career” but – “our livelihood”; not – “my life”, but – “our lives”; kind of attitude – who are willing to accept whatever love & the relationship brings. i am available only for a life long relationship only (**** is not my priority & **** **** is totally out of picture). the guy who is mutually finalized will get the legal status of my successor so he does not have to worry about his future. he will be groomed to handle my current business so those who are running after own careers stay away i am best for some one who needs a caring soul mate, a life partner, loyal belongingness, loving companionship, living & working together, financial security. ######################################################################## soulmate for a lifetime: *************************** guys tell me it is very difficult to be soul mates for life time as most of the guys look for **** and casual relationship only. my experience is otherwise! i found that most of the guys longed for a lifetime solution (**** being a part of that solution) & not for **** only. yet they could not find a soul mate. is it so difficult to get your soul mate? let us go a step ahead and ask whether it is at all difficult? i believe that if we have a clear & honest thinking than it is much more easier then we think but if we are dishonest & confused we can make it much more difficult than it is. ######################################################################## if you are sure ****************** so if you are sure that you are looking for a soul mate & a life partner, let us see what is required to make this relationship a success! i believe you can’t make this relationship success by making lot of calculations using complex social factors & relationship equations - the kind of ones, which gays often quote mostly family & career. my thinking on the relationship i am seeking is very simple formula 1: ya to “kisi ko apna bana lo” (own some one) ****************************************** formula 2: ya phir “kisi ke ho jao” (be some one’s) ************************************ anything that comes in between is trash, rubbish & escapism (including family, society, and career) howsoever hard you keep on discussing, arguing, messaging & chatting. i can guarantee you that unless you make relationship a priority over family, society & career you will keep on doing chats and messaging only all through your life & will reach no where any day. what one needs to make this relationship work? faith? dedication? loyalty? love? care? of course yes to all these! but you also need to be together to make that relationship work? you need a home where you can be together! you need an environment in that home where you can be yourself and express yourself! then you need resources to run that home without interference from out siders! (outsiders to me do not mean society but parents & then relatives in that order). i believe that society has never interfered and can never interfere in your life or bother for you unless you seek endorsements & certificates from the society for your being what you are. it is always the parents & relatives who interfere & play the spoils. and they also play the havoc only when you force your gay hood on them and expect them or force them to agree with you. why do you need such endorsements, certificates & acceptances for your being what you are? just be what you are! so if you have that home, the environment (i.e. an unselfish family which allows you to live with your chosen soul mate without torturing you) and the resources just lend your hand to that someone who needs you & your home somewhere! just bring in that someone to live with you - and share yourself & everything that is yours with that someone! this is the formula no 1: kisi ko apna bana lo – you will experience heavens on earth! and if you don’t have that home, the environment and the resources & yet you wish to have a soul mate, turn to the next formula! just give yourself to that someone whom you need & be in his home somewhere - and share yourself & everything that is yours with that someone! this is the formula no 2: kisi ke ho jao – you will experience heavens on earth! i am for some one who needs me. and be sure to ping me only if you need some one like me forever. i have a well settled business, a pretty good home. a small car. a faithful dog & lovely cat (both stay together). the environment (your parents or my parents are not here to torture you for what you are and how you live in your bed room). my relatives have been tamed to mind their own business. you too also can tame them if you are sincere to yourself! i hope i have been able to express myself in a broader perspective without mincing words. now i would give the finer details that you might need to know before you move on and start your journey to your dream world ######################################################################## message me only if: *********************** you really need life long relationship with some one who can give you love, care, affection, companionship, understanding, belongingness, loyalty, social & financial security. you are cool with your gay hood and don’t remain preoccupied about this the whole day and accept it naturally and do not need endorsements, certificates & acceptances for your being a gay from outsiders (including your parents)? you are not a female in a male body (such cases need **** change). no feminist behaviour even in slight degrees is acceptable to me. you are capable of thwarting family / social barriers & pressures to marry at a later stage and are convinced and bold enough to accept that your parents don’t have a right to decide whom you are going to live with ######################################################################## once again, i am not for **************************** the mere **** tourists, the night stands, wasteful chatterers, the 3 us: unsure, unsystematic & unorganized guys the escapists: guys who seek a soul mate but run away when it comes to relationship & seek refuge in the name of responsibility & concern for parents, family & society. the hypocrites: guys who believe that they can have a soul mate and also have relationship with family which does not accept their orientation ######################################################################## things, which don’t matter to me **************************************** your qualification - your job and earnings -your caste, religion, country of origin, physical looks, body stats, skin colour etc. to me a picture is just to identify the face i talk to! and it is a must to proceed ahead things, which matter to me most now your honesty with yourself & your purpose. things, which will matter to me in future your loyalty, dedication & faithfulness to our relationship. what i wish to have from my soul mate in return? ********************************************* only his being with me! nothing else! absolutely nothing else pl proceed ahead only if all this makes sense to you ######################################################################## in brief i am raajkumar: self-made. totally independent & socially free from all kind of family barriers that guys find themselves in. (everybody who is honest with himself & his purpose can be so). well educated & reasonably well settled. carries social impact & reputation. intelligent, innovative & bold. adaptable, honest, & faithful. an ocean of love, care, affection, companionship, understanding, belongingness, loyalty more details about myself: a reasonably well settled professional – having a business spread all across india. i never have to travel or run for business on any of these locations so don’t expect me to be available for a meeting in your city. meeting has to be where i live – jaipur. (i belong to delhi but have deliberately settled in jaipur away from the family because i believe in the truth that as long as you stay with the real criminals (your parents), you can never have a gay partner. though i have absolutely no boundations, chains or shackles and am open to shifting anywhere in the world for my soul mate except in the city where the guys parents & relatives (read interferences) stay but the first meet has to be at jaipur only. available only for life long relationship with just one guy. must be willing to be loyal, honest, faithful & dedicated in relationship (once that is established). must be willing to settle down with me. must have the conviction of thwarting family / social barriers & pressures to marry at a later stage (nobody can really force you to marry unless you yourself are interested!). must be modern in outlook (which does not mean that he has to be materialistic & lavish). ####################################################################### my dream: ************ i have a very simple dream - someone to call my own...my other half as they say i’m looking for somebody who is my everybody & for whom i’m everybody. somebody for whom a relationship is not just passing of time but a reason of existence. someone who is always with me. i don’t believe in net friends or hypothetical distance relationships ######################################################################## my mission: ************* to belong to one and only one such guy. i would share & give away everything of mine for him/them and the only reward i would long for is that he/they remains with me loyal & faithful. ######################################################################## gay relationship & ****: *************************** for me gay relationship is not all about ****. it is as good as or perhaps better than a marriage which has to be a closed one... and has to grow n build up with trust n faith in each other...and most of all love. i am not a saint but at the same time **** is not a taboo for me. **** alone is not something, i am looking for. ######################################################################## just like that: ***************** i take drinks & non-veg occasionally and prefer my partner/friend to give company though this is not a precondition. in parties i take drinks and enjoy taking a lot and am well known for this. i like hanging out with someone ######################################################################## no compromise ****************** tobacco, gutka, cigareetes, drugs and women are a few things i would like to remain away from and would expect my partner also to refrain from. there can be no compromise on these 5 parameters. ######################################################################## my religion: *************** my religion is simple. my work & my love is my religion. firm believer of god but religion or religious functions the way they have been narrowed down in our society, do not interest me at all. religious fundamentalists are not my cup of tea. i do not believe in any religious & social rites including the birth, death or any other being practiced by the society. i have visited temples to see their architectural beauty but have never prayed till date. so guys who spend a lot of time in religious rites stay away. ######################################################################## i like: ******* almost anything that is focused and clear in concepts. this could be good movies, good literature, good theatre, good songs, hilltops, hanging out, long drives, work or even sitting silently doing nothing at times. ######################################################################## my icons: osho, mother teresa, jrd tata, indira ****hi. ######################################################################## relationship success mantra: let us loose ourself in order to find ourself: ######################################################################## before it is too late: you have now before you all that you can know about somebody, from the core & depth of the heart. so do respond! and please respond with full details about you in one go & a snap. any messages without snaps go in dustbin. who knows our lives could be waiting for the ceremony that “you” are, the ceremony that “i” am, the ceremony that this i + you = we may be. ####################################################################### the one question that always haunt you: **************************************** what will i tell my parents when it comes to moving away to my soul mate? well the solution to this is as simple as taking a glass of water or a cup of tea! do you have to give them any explanation when you take a glass of water or a cup of tea? believe me this situation is also as simple unless you wish to make it complex! how? i will tell you when you decide to move further. before messaging before messaging, be firm in your objective & introspect & decide whether i am the kind of man you are really looking for! don’t be in a hurry i will remain here for quite sometime & i do visit this site regularly. if you feel we have enough common ground to go ahead with me, please message with (1) your complete details & clear objective & purpose in messaging me (2) a brief about how u plan to go ahead to achieve your objective & your next move in that direction (3) your clear face pictures (if not already there in the profile). i don’t use pictures to decide about a relationship but they are necessary for an identity of the guy i am interacting with ######################################################################## please make sure that you are in a position to come to my place jaipur (rajasthan) india to meet me to carry the process further & not ask me to come anywhere else or any other city. i assure you that if i request you to stay back, i will make your stay comfortable with me in my home and will not ask you to stay in a hotel etc as guys do on this site (how sick it is to invite some one & ask him to stay in a hotel). you will not be required to spend anything for your stay, food, or anything else that we together do after your reaching jaipur. but please do not ask for money/fare etc for coming to meet me because if you can spend money on rubbish movies, junk food, malls you must decide to curtail that wasteful expenditure to save for your trip to your dream mate. it is worth it! though i have absolutely no boundations, chains or shackles & if we click am open to shifting anywhere in the world for my soul mate except in the city where the guys parents & relatives (read interferences) stay but the first meet has to be at my place only i respect a person’s right to reject me without giving any reason and vice versa thanks for reading lovingly raaj